A Relation...

What is a relation? NO wonder there would be many explantaions/ interpreatations for this? But do we really mean what we say? Most of us in this present world of modernization give importance only to materialistic things but not for those values/ principles/ morales/ thoughts. Today in any sort of relation people tend to be more practical. We meet many people in our day to day life, we share many things with the ones who are close to us or to say with the ones with whom we share a 'realtionship'. But when the time comes when we no longer need them we just ignore them or forget them with time.





So theres no realtion that speaks of care/ love/ affection. Its just a need. Our lives have become so busy with work/ job that we sometimes dont prefer to have any relation. A relation now means a dependency either it is an emotional dependancy or any other. And everyone strives to be independant. But is this a positive or negative chanege?Would this world exists if everyone tries to be indepandant this way?
Whether its a parental relation or a wife-husband realtion or a realtion between two friends...they are sharing a relation for a reason/ need but do they really mean life/ world to each other? People marry cause they have to have some partner in their lfie to share their happiness/ sorrows. May be am talking about some eternal realtion which is beyond sharing.
We dont have any explantion or definition for such an eternal relation neither does it has any meaning. We love a person cause we feel better when we are with him/ her. We will be fiendly with someone cause they have same interests/ opinions like us.

A relation is mere dependancy on the one wih whom we share it. Theres nothing like...I cnat live without ones parents are withour the one whom we love r ...etc etc.
We need to live with ourself, with ur inner conscious, which always talks to you. Its upto you to listen to it or losten to others. ONce you explore urself you dont need any one to stand by ur side. Ur an independant soul which can reach any far off land without any ones help. There are no boundaries that can confine you.