She has never seen her father trying to be obliged and never wanted to see that. Since her childhood she has seen her father as a person with great commitment, loyalty, sincerity and honesty. Cause of his honesty he earned good number of enemies at work place. But none of them could flinch him from doin what he wanted to do or what he is supposed to do. For her, her father is a hero. She used to fill "your favorite hero:" with "My father" in the autographs books.
Cause he is the only man she has seen in real life who struggled since his childhood to be in a position which he had never dreamt of. Who is so determined about what he wants. Who is as strong as he could be and who is as soft as he could be. She always has high reagards for her father and wanted everyone to regard him the same way. In the same way she wanted her father to be proud of her. The only next man she would see in her life would be her better-half her husband. But she was not aware that her father has to be so obliged in order to find that man in her life.
She couldn't see her father who lived as a king, who's respected, who's esteemed being so submissive. Its time for her father to search for a man and to get her married to the right man. Being a typical South Indian family person he has to be so down-to-earth when dealing with supposed to be her daughter's could-be would-be's family. Inspite of many changes over the generations nothing has changed when it comes to the matter of south indian families. No matter what he is, when it comes to being a father of a daughter he is already labelled as a looser. He has to loose his duaghter, his pride, his ego.
For all the affection, protection that he gives what is that he gets in return? Just more demands, more obligations, more stingers. Does he deserve all these?
Indian marriages are the best!
But all the fun is only in/after the marriage. But all the drama before the marriage is a big fool's game where always the looser is the father of a duaghter. Would she allow this to continue? Would she allow this to happen to her or her father? Is there a way for her to put all this to an end?
Cause he is the only man she has seen in real life who struggled since his childhood to be in a position which he had never dreamt of. Who is so determined about what he wants. Who is as strong as he could be and who is as soft as he could be. She always has high reagards for her father and wanted everyone to regard him the same way. In the same way she wanted her father to be proud of her. The only next man she would see in her life would be her better-half her husband. But she was not aware that her father has to be so obliged in order to find that man in her life.
She couldn't see her father who lived as a king, who's respected, who's esteemed being so submissive. Its time for her father to search for a man and to get her married to the right man. Being a typical South Indian family person he has to be so down-to-earth when dealing with supposed to be her daughter's could-be would-be's family. Inspite of many changes over the generations nothing has changed when it comes to the matter of south indian families. No matter what he is, when it comes to being a father of a daughter he is already labelled as a looser. He has to loose his duaghter, his pride, his ego.
For all the affection, protection that he gives what is that he gets in return? Just more demands, more obligations, more stingers. Does he deserve all these?
Indian marriages are the best!
But all the fun is only in/after the marriage. But all the drama before the marriage is a big fool's game where always the looser is the father of a duaghter. Would she allow this to continue? Would she allow this to happen to her or her father? Is there a way for her to put all this to an end?
1 comment:
I dont know whether u wud find a solution to this problem...but definetly wud pray for that. At the same time...u DO LOV UR FATHER SO MUCH..dont u..
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